Transformations are founded upon the desire to change after envisioning a different state, a different tomorrow. The transformation of a dilapidated building to the beautiful, “By Grace Hair Studio” in Blue Eye, MO, is a shining example of such a transformation. The vacant building, in a state of despair, was transformed to a modern beauty salon, so stylish you would think Joanne Gaines, herself, designed it.
After going to the Salon’s open house, it got me contemplating the parallels of fixing buildings to transforming ourselves to someone kinder, more beautiful. What I loved about the salon’s transformation was the end result. It had such a wonderful “vibe” to it that you wanted to linger longer. So, what is your “vibe?” Is it more positive or more negative? Do people want to linger around you?
Transformations commence with an assessment of your strengths. The assessment of the building led to saving only the four brick walls. They were so full of history and charm; they were saved.
We all have strengths to build upon.
The next step to transform is to want to improve and not be blinded by your perceptions. It is easy when you live in house for years to not see what is needed to change because you are seeing the house as you first loved it. Our perceptions of ourselves also get masked with our experiences, and it is hard to see the need for a change. If you have been doing the kindness measurement you will know where you stand on the kindness scale.
It took four months to modernize the salon. Breaking habits of negativity, constant criticism, and judgments, also take time. Foundation work was required, I.e. plumbing, structural reinforcement and electrical wiring. For a kinder life, positive thoughts and intentions, are required for a strong foundation.
Why I love the salon transformation so much is twofold. The finishing touches are beautiful: from the focal point chandelier, the crate shelving, the hair blower holders, cabinets, and decor.
However, the main reason is the peaceful energy, it is easy to feel the love that was built into it. You can tell that Ryan built this as a labor of love for his wife, Jodie. The building was transformed for Jodie to have a beautiful place to work and to welcome her customers.
The purpose to personally transform is to have a peaceful, happier life not only for yourself but for those who are impacted by your energy day in and day out. As you transform, you will see that you are enabling those you love, to transform as well; just as the salon building transformation will have an impact on its customers for years to come.
If you live in the vicinity, the salon is located at 1123 State Hwy 13, Blue Eye, MO, 417-779-1527, perhaps it will inspire you.
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